Bear One Another’s Burdens

August 8, 2013

Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so you shall fulfill the law of Christ. (Gal. 6:2)

French peasant women tilling soil circa 1917-1920, public domain photo image enhanced

French peasant women tilling soil circa 1917-1920, public domain photo image enhanced

When participating in Sunday Snippets this past week, I came across Michael’s post at “To Love and Truth” titled Listening to God’s Soft Whisper. One great thing about the Catholic blogging world is the opportunity to participate in spiritual observations of others, and this post really made me think. The post began:

 We often thank God for sending a particular person into our life.   God blessed us through that person.  It is easy to see God’s action in those He sends into our life in response to our prayer.  It is more difficult to be the person who God sends in response to someone else’s prayer.  [My emphasis.]

I am often very conscious of my own needs, aware of the constant pressure points against body, mind, and soul, preoccupied with my own problems, worries, hopes, etc. Sometimes this can cause me to close off others, to be blind to their needs. Yet Jesus expects us to bear one another’s burdens, and in fact not to be anxious over what we shall eat or wear, or anything else because our Father takes care of all our needs (Matt. 6:25-32).

Forgetting of self to be present to others implies being open to God’s call to be the person He sends to someone else in need. If we are to be God’s gift to someone else, we must constantly be corresponding with His grace to grow in the direction He wills, a scary thought when you come right down to it. We all know how fragile and imperfect we are if we’re honest with ourselves, and how we neglect to follow the inspirations of the Holy Spirit in us.

To be a gift to others means that we must be constantly growing in virtue because, as Father Gabriel of St. Mary Magdalene writes in #267 of Divine Intimacy,

Bearing one another’s burdens also means enduring the faults of others calmly and kindly. [How often are our sins and faults the cause of our burdens? Don’t we regularly shoot ourselves in the foot and thus need someone else’s help? We want others to bear with us calmly, patiently, and kindly. We must be prepared to do the same to our neighbor.]

Charity always believes in the good will of others, even though it may be accompanied by faults; it always hopes in the good which it knows how to discover in every creature, although it may be eclipsed by many deficiencies. What is more important, charity supports everything, never finding any burden too heavy….Charity feels that it must stoop with love to take up the burdens of others, particularly those burdens which all avoid because they are troublesome.

We must not shy away from God’s call to be His gift to someone else through false humility or aversion, or weariness of mind, body, and spirit, but rather embrace it as another opportunity for our sanctification and that of the ones in need. His grace always comes along with the task. The task is always a challenge to trust in Him and stay close to Him, a daily adventure never ending but always fruitful unless we say “no” and walk away.

Want to subscribe to posts by email? Visit the third box in the sidebar.

V. Praised be Jesus Christ!

R. Now and forever!

(Click on the link above to read why I end my posts this way.)

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...

Tags: ,

Thursday, August 8th, 2013 spirituality

3 Comments to Bear One Another’s Burdens

  1. Beautiful post, Barb.

  2. Carol@simple_catholic on August 11th, 2013
  3. Beautiful article. I often wonder about the “chance encounters” with strangers when I am touched by another person’s kind words or deeds or I feel moved to do something for them. It may be only 5 minutes and we may never see them again but there may be a reason God brought us together.

  4. colleen on August 14th, 2013
  5. Yes, I think so, but we will have to wait until heaven to find out.

  6. barb on August 14th, 2013


This site is dedicated to Our Lady of Guadalupe, Mother of the Americas, and Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta. May they accompany me and all readers on our journey to God.

Email notification of posts

For Writers and Advertisers: Copy Editing and Proof-reading by Barb

Community of Catholic Bloggers

  • Community of Catholic Bloggers


I am grateful for even small donations to help keep this site going. All donors will be kept in my prayers.

Catholic Bloggers Network

Catholic Bloggers Network

Catholic Spirituality Blogs Network

  • Catholic Spirituality Blogs Network


Blog Disclosure Policy